An elder relative is an older member of the family, treated with respect. Ask an elder relative, defer to an elder relative.
The word elder rather than older carries the respect, which is the whole difference. In many cultures an elder relative is consulted on decisions that in others would be private.
1nounelder relativeAn older member of the family, treated with respect.
“No arrangement was made without asking an elder relative first.”
elder relative is a relative.
Practised in Family & People