A palaver is a great to-do of long, empty talk. Also, in British use, any tiresome fuss about a simple thing.
The British sense is the living one, and describing a form-filling process as a right palaver is a complaint everybody understands. It carries weary humour rather than anger. The word came into English through Portuguese from Latin, and it originally meant a parley or a conference, particularly between traders and local people in West Africa. Faff is the informal British near synonym.
1nounpalaverA tiresome fuss or long-winded business.
“Getting the parcel redelivered was a complete palaver.”
Also accepted in games: fuss
Portuguese
palavra
English, today
palaver
Borrowed from Portuguese palavra. Originally nautical slang, from Portuguese palavra (“word”), from Latin parabola (“parable, speech”). The term's use (especially in Africa) mimics the evolution of the word moot. As such, for sense development, see moot. a doublet of parable and parole and parabola.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA