Abusive means cruel or insulting in the way it treats somebody. An abusive relationship, abusive language, become abusive.
An abusive relationship is not only a violent one: control over money, movement and contact with other people is recognised as abuse in law in a growing number of countries, and coercive control is now a criminal offence in Britain.
1adjectiveabusiveCruel or insulting in the way it treats somebody.
“The customer became abusive and started shouting insults at the waiter.”
abusive is a quality.
Latin abusivus comes from abuti, to misuse — ab, away, plus uti, to use.
Latin
abūsīvus
French
abusif
English, today
abusive
Built from
First attested in the 1530s. From French abusif, from Latin abūsīvus, from abusus + -ivus (“-ive”). Equivalent to abuse + ive.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA