Invidious means likely to cause resentment however you handle it. An invidious comparison.
It describes a task rather than a person, and the resentment is unavoidable rather than deserved. Choosing between two colleagues for one promotion is the classic invidious position.
1adjectiveinvidiousLikely to cause resentment however you handle it.
“He was put in the invidious position of ranking his own friends.”
invidious is a quality.
Latin invidiosus, from invidia, envy, which is in plus videre, to look upon, so literally looking at with ill will.
Proto-Indo-European
*weyd-
Latin
invidiōsus
English, today
invidious
Built from
Borrowed from Latin invidiōsus, from invidia (“envy, ill will”), from in- (“upon”) + videō (“to see”); the meaning developed from “look back at” to “look askance at” to “envy.” a doublet of envious, from Old French.
Etymology from Wiktionary, CC BY-SA